It’s Okay to Stop
Tuesday, March 18th, 2008
While Mr. Reasons of 101 Reasons to Stop Writing would love it if I talked about this as a permanent thing, that’s not the case. However, I am going to tell you what you think I’m going to tell you.
It’s okay to stop and put the pen down.
Yesterday I went to the air conditioned library to escape the brain melting 100+ degree heat of the Australian sunshine. While there, I had one of the best writing days I have had in a long time, finishing up the work day at over 3,000 words typed for the day.
Do I attribute this to a fabulous muse? The delicious smoothie I had while there? The wonders of air conditioning?
Perhaps, in part, but by and large I attribute it to the fact I took a few days off writing. I tried not to think about it. I relaxed. I went people watching.
Basically, I did what every writer needs to do now and then not only to write better but to manage to keep whatever amount of sanity you have:
Get out of the writing room!
Yes, writing is about putting your ass down in the chair and getting some writing done, but it’s also about living. If you never get out of the writing room and experience life, then who do you think you are going about as if you have something to write about?
If possible, sometime this week get out and go somewhere new. Or, at least, go somewhere you rarely go. On your lunch break, after work, whenever works best for you. Go somewhere new and live it up. Experience things.
Do it because this is one of the few times I’m going to tell you to get your bum out of the chair.

…then I have the money, honey.
Ah, it’s finally happened; you have written your first draft.
You sit down to write wearing ____ with ____ in view, ____ on your music player and a bowl/plate of ____ to one side just in case you feel a bit hungry while you’re writing.
One of the hardest things for aspiring writers (and some accomplished writers) is to complete this equation.
Fear. That’s what it all comes down to, doesn’t it? The reason you’re not writing?
But everybody is doing it…
On
Ah, it’s that wonderful time again. Little reminders, the week before Christmas edition.
Today, before I get into anything, I’d like to send out some love to my dieting buddy
Like any other writer, sometimes I sit back from my current project and wonder what the heck I think I’m doing. Why am I writing? Why write? Why don’t I do something that will pay bills like…anything besides writing.
One of the most challenging things for a writer is to make the commitment to sit down every day and write.